Number 6: You know that your needs are important.
If you’ve ever been in a relationship with a narcissist, you know that your needs are never critical. A narcissist will never care about what works for you or makes you happy, they only care about themselves and what they want to do and also, will expect you to go along with it because they’re the ones in charge.
When you’re with a narcissist, you can feel like you don’t matter. When you’re with someone who cares about your needs, they ensure you get what you need before anything else. They don’t worry about themselves first and don’t expect anything from you in return for their kindness and generosity of spirit.
When you are with them, you know that you deserve to have your needs met and that those needs are important to discuss. Whether it’s about what you want for dinner, or what kind of vacation you want next summer.
Number 7: You don’t let anyone else make decisions for you.
If you don’t let anyone else make decisions for you, it’s a sign that the narcissist can never control you. They love to be in charge of everything, so they’re not going to just sit back and let anyone else control their lives. They want others to be puppets they can manipulate and use however they please.
Narcissists will try to control how you, dress how much money you make, who your friends are, and so on. They will try their best to get into your head and convince you that you should make all the decisions for both of you.
Narcissists want easy targets people who will let them make all the decisions and just do what they say without question. When you don’t let anyone else make decisions for you, you have all the power over what happens in your life.
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