Number 1. Be the Woman Who Sees the Patterns
A narcissist counts on your hope false hope. They need you to believe in their potential to hold on to the fantasy of who they could be rather than who they are. It is how they keep you loyal long after the relationship has rotted.
But when you begin to see the repeated patterns, behaviors, the emotional loops, the predictable highs followed by extremely destructive emotional lows, you stop falling for their future promises.
You do not stay for who they could be; you leave because of who they are, and that alone breaks their illusion of power.
Number 2. Become the Woman Who Does Not React
They teach you how to respond, how to fear them, how to please them, how to walk on eggshells basically, how to tiptoe around them, how to make your life about them. When you stop justifying, defending, arguing, when you stop caring about their distorted version of the truth, what happens?
They lose their grip, and that confuses them. That confusion plants a seed they cannot shake, no matter what they do, and the inner voice in their head says, “You’re not under their control anymore.” That voice, that thought alone, will haunt them far longer than any argument ever could.
Why? Because power and control are everything to them, and the core reason behind that is they’re utterly powerless before the situation they so tightly kept together.
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