Narcissists are people with great expectations. This is why they are always disappointed or feel that people are failing, attacking, or hurting them somehow. They live their lives putting certain expectations on the people around them. They expect to get whatever they want from you. They expect you to do whatever they want.
They expect you to do everything in your power to keep them happy. They expect you to keep loving them and be there for them no matter how they treat you. And regarding today’s topic, their expectations continue even after they discard you. So, I am going to be getting into a few things that the Narcissist wants to happen and even expect to happen after they discard you.
Number 1: Never Want to Give You Up
And the first thing the Narcissist wants or expects is that they continue to have access to you. Forget about the fact that they may have mistreated you, ghosted you, cheated on you, or cast you aside like you were yesterday’s news. All of that means nothing to the Narcissist. They still want to know they can call you or show up at your door whenever they feel like it.
It may take days, weeks, months, or even years for them to make contact, but just knowing they can is what makes them feel like they still have control over you. And this is why, even if it was the Narcissist who discarded you, establishing No Contact is so important. Because it is something they do not expect you to do. But it is the best thing you can do if you can.
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