5. Narcissists display envy and belittle others.
One surefire way to spot a narcissist in conversation is by how they handle other people’s successes and failures. If you share something you’re proud of, a narcissist will find a way to downplay it. Got a promotion? They’ll say it’s not that big of a deal. Won an award? They’ll mention how it’s not a prestigious one. They’re allergic to your success and must pop their antihistamine of envy by belittling your achievements.
On the other hand, if you talk about something that didn’t go well, they’ll jump on it. They’ll remind you of every mistake and love pointing out where you went wrong. Dr. Ramani Durvasula, a clinical psychologist, says that narcissists get a kick out of other people’s misfortunes because it makes them feel better about themselves. They carry a mental scoreboard, and your losses add points to their side.
Listen closely: it’s not about you; it’s all about their fragile ego needing a constant boost. Just remember the wise words of Eleanor Roosevelt: “No one can make you feel inferior without your consent.” So let their envy and belittling roll off your back and keep shining bright.
Have you spotted these clues when talking to someone you know? You will know if you’re dealing with a narcissist because you will suddenly feel mentally and emotionally drained. Narcissists are energy vampires; they suck the life out of you to survive. Be careful, critical, and wise while interacting with them. Never allow their manipulative words to get into your mind and heart.
You may limit or cut your contact with them if your mental health gets affected. If you’re afraid of losing a friend, relative, or lover with narcissistic tendencies, you’ll end up losing yourself. So keep these clues always in your mind so you will know how to handle a conversation with a narcissist.
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