Number 8: Narcissists Feel Hurt When You Set Boundaries.
Narcissists hurt when you set boundaries. When you set a boundary, you’re communicating to the narcissist that their behavior is unacceptable to you and that you won’t allow it to continue in the future. Narcissists usually lack little or no compassion for others’ emotions, so they don’t understand why anyone should be upset with their behavior.
When they do something wrong and are informed accordingly, they will be offended because they believe that they were being kind or helpful, while in fact what they did offended or injured someone else. It is difficult to establish boundaries with a person who overtests the boundaries; nevertheless, it is for your benefit and sanity too as well as to protect you.
Number 9: Narcissists Feel Hurt When You Overlook and No Longer Care About Them.
Narcissists are hurt when you disregard and do not care about them. Narcissists are people who are extremely interested in themselves and in what they are doing, and in a total lack of empathy towards other individuals. Narcissists rely on others’ admiration as they think it keeps them alive.
Narcissists are hurt when you ignore and don’t care about them anymore, when you don’t feed their ego anymore by praising and complimenting them, or when you simply don’t seem to care what they have to say anymore.
It attacks their ego. This is so because narcissists need to be validated by others for them to feel good about themselves. And when they can’t get this approval from anyone else, they will seek ways of obtaining it from themselves.
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