3. They Intentionally Message You at Inconvenient Times
This is one of the most manipulative behaviors of a narcissist. They will deliberately message you when you’re busy, whether you’re working, in a meeting, studying, or attending to an important matter. They demand your attention at the most inconvenient times because, in their minds, nothing should be more important than them.
They might even fabricate a false emergency to trap you into responding. For example, they might say something alarming like, “So-and-so had to be taken to the hospital. It’s an emergency, but I see you’re not available.” Then they’ll delete the message after ensuring you’ve seen it, leaving you anxious and desperate for more information. This tactic is designed to exploit your empathy.
Once you discover that nothing happened, you’ll be furious, but they’ll twist the situation, saying things like, “I just wanted a little attention. I did it for us, and all I get from you is anger. You’re abusing me.” They’ll make you feel guilty, forcing you to soothe them while unknowingly betraying yourself.
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4. They Don’t Fully Read Your Messages
Narcissists rarely read your entire message. They’ll scan it quickly, looking for something they can twist and use against you. They won’t bother to fully understand your opinion or point of view. Instead, they’ll latch onto a few words, fabricate a narrative, and create drama out of thin air. This behavior is a way to avoid taking responsibility for their actions while keeping you engaged in endless explanations.
Everything triggers a narcissist due to their fragile ego, and your text will likely be perceived as criticism. They’ll twist your words, turn the tables, and make it seem like you’re attacking them. This is why sending long messages explaining your feelings or asking for change is futile they don’t care enough to read and understand.
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