Number 4: When you are at peace without them.
If you want to permanently hurt a narcissist, you must be at peace without them. A narcissist can’t stand the feeling of you being better off without them. This makes them feel like they have lost control over you, which a narcissist cannot tolerate- simply enjoy your life without them.
A narcissist will never understand why you can be happy without them, and they will feel frightened by your happiness and peace. They need you to need them for them to feel like they can function correctly. Their entire world starts crumbling around them if they see that you don’t need them anymore.
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Number 5: When you don’t give them attention anymore.
Narcissists are so used to people giving them attention. It’s hard for them to imagine a world where they are not the center stage. They crave the spotlight and expect everyone else to be as interested in them as they are in themselves.
It hurts a narcissist when you don’t give them the attention they think- they deserve. They want to feel like they are the most critical person in your life and that you would never do anything without thinking of them first.
The biggest rule of narcissists is that they need constant attention. If you stop giving them this attention, they will lash out at you in ways that can be highly damaging and often unexpected. Narcissists tend to overreact and make situations much worse than they are.
You can’t expect them to be able to just get over the fact that you don’t want to give them attention anymore. It will surely take time for them to recover from this rejection.
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