Number 4: Narcissists take control of your life.
They don’t just want to be in relationships with you, they want to be in control of every aspect of your life, they want to know where you are, who you’re with, and what you’re doing. Narcissists want to dictate how much time you spend with others, and how much you spend with them.
Your needs and wants will always come second to theirs. Narcissists will try to create an environment, where you only think about what they want and how they feel. They will try to make everything about them, or get help from anyone else.
They want to dominate your life and do whatever they can to ensure you’re under their thumb. They’ll take over your finances, career, and hobbies if they have the opportunity. Narcissists want to decide what you do with every single minute of your day.
Number 5: Narcissists make false promises.
They can be very charming and know how to say the right things at the right time, they may tell you they want a long-term relationship with you, or to settle down and start a family with you. A narcissist will just use your relationship as a means to an end.
They are not loyal to anyone but themselves, so they will always take advantage of you, while they have the chance. They trick you by making false promises, they’ll promise you the world and when you give them power, they destroy everything that was once special in your life.
Narcissists May promise that they’ll be better, but they never are. And if you try to hold them accountable, they’ll just blame it on something else. Be careful confronting narcissists about their broken promises, they may become defensive or lash out at you.
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