Number 2: They need to know what you’re cooking in your head.
What’s going on to be able to strategize against you? When you do not talk, when you do not send those long replies, they can’t read you emotionally, they can’t decide what to do next, whether to abandon you or not. What state are you in currently and how that can be weaponized against you?
For example, if you are trying your best to make this relationship work and you are trying to express your pain to them through those long messages and long emails, then now you are in a very raw state and they can breadcrumb you, they can tell you anything they want to regain your trust and fool you one more time. But when you do not respond, they’re the ones sending long messages and long emails only to accuse you of things you haven’t done.
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Their paranoia makes them believe that you are constantly planning and plotting, you are basically about to do things that they do to other people. A narcissist quite blindly thinks that everybody functions like them, which is why they don’t care about hurting people. Well, that’s one of the reasons why they don’t care, they think everybody does the same BS to each other and they move along.
It’s a normalized thing in a narcissist’s mind. So not having any power over you by not knowing what you’re up to and how you could strike them, triggers anxiety, panic, panic attacks, and a narcissist’s unpredictability is their Kryptonite as well. They can be unpredictable to you but they can’t, like your unpredictability.
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