What Will A Narcissistic Ex Do To You After the Break Up?


Narcissistic exes tend to cause a lot of havoc in a relationship before and after the breakup, and often it’s difficult to understand their behavior because they lack empathy. Have an inflated image of themselves and engage in childish Tantrums or rage when things don’t go their way. Together, let’s find out the answers to this question what does a narcissistic ex do when you end the relationship?

Number 1: Your narcissistic ex blames you for the breakup.

Suppose your narcissistic ex was controlling and manipulative. If you were dumped, your narcissistic ex would likely tell you it was because of something you did, even if it wasn’t. In that case, the narcissistic ex will attempt to make you feel guilty for breaking up. This is a common way that narcissists deal with rejection and conflict, they try to shift the blame to their partner to maintain control over them.

Narcissistic say you are too needy, they just needed some space, or you didn’t make them feel good enough. They’ll say that they were never really in love with you and just using you to make themselves feel better. They’ll try to make it sound like it was all your fault like they did nothing wrong, and you did everything wrong. But it’s not your fault.

Number 2: Your narcissistic ex will convince you you’ve made a mistake.

Your narcissistic ex will try to convince you that the breakup is your fault, not theirs. These narcissists may tell you they still love you and want to get back together. They might even lie about how much they miss you and how hard it is for them without you, but this is just manipulation to get what they want.

If you don’t give in to their demands, they will keep trying until you do. Narcissists will try to convince you that you’re making a huge mistake, by breaking up with them and that everything will be fine if you stay with them. They’ll tell you that you’re crazy for doing so and try to make you feel guilty for hurting their feelings. Narcissists may even threaten to hurt themselves if you don’t come back to them.

Number 3: Your narcissistic ex will demand attention.

If you break up with a narcissist, they will not let you go without a fight; they will demand your attention and try to manipulate you into staying with them. Narcissists cannot handle being alone, they need to feel wanted and loved by others to Feel Complete.

So, if you decide to break up with one, narcissists will do everything in their power to get you back into their life. Your narcissistic ex will try to get you to talk to them. Ask why you broke up with them, and try to manipulate you into giving them another chance. They do this because they are addicted to the attention they receive from you, and want more of it.

Number 4: Your narcissistic ex will guilt trip you into staying.

This is a common tactic for narcissists because they know that if they can get you to feel bad enough about leaving, then you’ll stay. They know that you care about them and want to keep it that way. It’s not uncommon for them to say things like “I don’t know what I’ll do without you” or “You’re the best thing that’s ever happened to me”.

Your narcissistic ex will likely try to get you back by reminding you of everything they did for you, or how much they loved and cared about you. Narcissists may tell you it’s all your fault or that their life is over without you, they might even threaten to commit suicide if you leave them. When someone uses guilt on you, remember that they do not deserve a place in your life if they can’t respect your decisions and boundaries.

Number 5: Your narcissistic ex will promise to change.

This is one of the things that your narcissistic ex will do after a breakup, to get you back. They will make take every excuse in the book, and they will promise you that they’ve changed, but don’t be fooled. Narcissists are just lying; this can be highly alluring because narcissists act so differently, they become more caring and empathetic towards you.

However, chances are that this promise is just a way for them to keep you in the relationship, and at the same time they continue treating you poorly without consequences. Narcissists are incapable of change; they only show different sides of themselves at other times, depending on what will benefit them the most at any given moment. Remember that you can’t fix them, you can only walk away from them.

Number 6: Your narcissistic ex will spread gossip about you.

Your narcissistic ex will ensure everyone knows that they are “the victim”, and that you’re the one who wronged by breaking up with them. It may be to make them look good, or it may be to make you look bad. Regardless of their motivation, they will try to get as many people as possible to believe their version of events.

Narcissists are so convincing that they’ll try to turn all of your mutual friends against you, they’ll spread gossips about you that are quite the opposite of what happened to the both of you. This could include anything from spreading rumors that you were cheating on them, or lying about them behind their back.

Number 7: Your narcissistic ex will stalk you.

Narcissists feel entitled to everything, they’re not used to being denied anything. If you break up with them, it’s not just a rejection but also a personal attack on their existence. Your narcissistic ex will stalk you, they’ll try to find out what you’re doing right now, by checking out your Instagram feed or following your Twitter accounts.

They may also try to follow you, show up in places nobody knows, or even break into your home. Suppose you have a narcissistic ex who is doing this to you, the main reason is that these narcissists will try to regain control over the situation. Narcissists want to ensure that you don’t move on, so they need to know what’s going on in your life. In that case, keeping yourself safe is vital by blocking their attempts and reporting them if necessary.

Number 8: Your narcissistic ex will keep contacting you.

After a breakup, narcissists will keep contacting you. They don’t want to give up their control over your life and think doing so would free them from their misery. So, they keep in touch to re-establish some means of control. This can feel very confusing because even though you think the relationship is over, you will continue to feel manipulated and overpowered by the other person for many months. Narcissists do it in different ways, they all send messages, leave comments on your Facebook wall, and text a new number. If they don’t receive one, they will continue to contact you until they do. They’ll never leave you alone.

Number 9: Your narcissistic ex will show how needy they are.

Narcissists want to know why you broke up with them and how they can improve things. To get you back, your narcissistic ex will show how needy they are. They’ll probably go to Great Lengths to prove just how much they need you by saying things like “I can’t live without you,” or “You’re the only one who understands me.”

They may even lure you back with Promises of change, or gifts. It’s critical to remember that your ex is an expert at deceiving others, especially at this vulnerable time. Don’t fall for it! Suppose you give in to their pleas for attention. In that case, it’s only a matter of time before you find yourself in the same old relationship with them all over again

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Number 10: Your narcissistic ex will try to get you jealous by dating someone else.

When narcissistic ex gets dumped, they can be hard on themselves and feel like they’ve failed. But instead of dealing with their own emotions. they’ll try to get you jealous by dating someone else. Narcissists post pictures of themselves on social media with their new partners. Talk about them all the time, and make it seem like things are going great.

It’s a way to prove that they don’t need you, and it’s also a way to make themselves feel better about what happened between the two of you in the past. They’ll do this to make you feel like they’re getting over you and moving on, but they’re just trying to make you feel bad about yourself. After a breakup with a narcissistic partner, you probably have no idea what to expect or how to predict their next move. They will often try various tactics to see which gets the best results for them.

You may experience some or all of these tactics, and it can be challenging to know how to deal with them calmly and rationally. But whatever you do, remember that the game is never on the narcissist’s side, it is always yours. You have complete control while they have nothing but arrogance.

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