Number 8: Your narcissistic ex will keep contacting you.
After a breakup, narcissists will keep contacting you. They don’t want to give up their control over your life and think doing so would free them from their misery. So, they keep in touch to re-establish some means of control. This can feel very confusing because even though you think the relationship is over, you will continue to feel manipulated and overpowered by the other person for many months. Narcissists do it in different ways, they all send messages, leave comments on your Facebook wall, and text a new number. If they don’t receive one, they will continue to contact you until they do. They’ll never leave you alone.
Number 9: Your narcissistic ex will show how needy they are.
Narcissists want to know why you broke up with them and how they can improve things. To get you back, your narcissistic ex will show how needy they are. They’ll probably go to Great Lengths to prove just how much they need you by saying things like “I can’t live without you,” or “You’re the only one who understands me.”
They may even lure you back with Promises of change, or gifts. It’s critical to remember that your ex is an expert at deceiving others, especially at this vulnerable time. Don’t fall for it! Suppose you give in to their pleas for attention. In that case, it’s only a matter of time before you find yourself in the same old relationship with them all over again
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Number 10: Your narcissistic ex will try to get you jealous by dating someone else.
When narcissistic ex gets dumped, they can be hard on themselves and feel like they’ve failed. But instead of dealing with their own emotions. they’ll try to get you jealous by dating someone else. Narcissists post pictures of themselves on social media with their new partners. Talk about them all the time, and make it seem like things are going great.
It’s a way to prove that they don’t need you, and it’s also a way to make themselves feel better about what happened between the two of you in the past. They’ll do this to make you feel like they’re getting over you and moving on, but they’re just trying to make you feel bad about yourself. After a breakup with a narcissistic partner, you probably have no idea what to expect or how to predict their next move. They will often try various tactics to see which gets the best results for them.
You may experience some or all of these tactics, and it can be challenging to know how to deal with them calmly and rationally. But whatever you do, remember that the game is never on the narcissist’s side, it is always yours. You have complete control while they have nothing but arrogance.
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